I'm sorry that you believe that size is everything, I tell you it's not. I hope you find what you are looking for. Believe in yourself and don't let other people belittle you. I appreciate your invitation, but not today. Good luck.
join a local lifestyle club as a couple. pay through the nose as a single male. they have mocha nights all the time. your lady will have a better time if you let her call the shots. so will you....